Many couples, after spending too much time together, tend to fall into a misconception: taking each other’s tolerance and concessions for granted. The other party habitually accommodates your temper, empathizes with your emotions, and compromises your bottom line. Over time, they become indifferent, willful, and irritable, constantly consuming the other party’s sincerity.
Whether it’s a boy or a girl, tolerance is never a natural obligation, but a kind of accommodation that comes with deep love. No one will unconditionally tolerate another person all the time. All concessions and understanding are expressions of reluctance to let go and cherishing this relationship. Consuming tolerance blindly will only slowly exhaust the other person’s love and patience.
The healthy interaction between men and women must be mutually inclusive and cherish each other. You understand the other person’s difficulties, they tolerate your minor flaws, and compromise with each other, rather than giving and tolerating unilaterally. Unilateral tolerance will eventually accumulate enough disappointment to turn around and leave.
The best state of emotions is when I understand your difficulties and you cherish my efforts. A two-way relationship that does not consume sincerity and does not disappoint tolerance is necessary to avoid most emotional conflicts and ensure a smooth and long-lasting intimate relationship.