I have already posted more than ten times, but it doesn’t work every time. Is there something wrong with me? “If you think the same way, don’t rush to deny yourself for now. Having failed many times, it’s often not because you’re not good enough, but because the following three reasons are holding you back….
How to deal with situations where the other party suddenly asks about their ex partner during a blind date, or they accidentally slip the tongue? Being too honest makes it seem like I can’t let go, and not saying anything at all makes it seem like I’m hiding something. Here are three ways to help…
I don’t think we’re suitable “- receiving this message, I feel indescribable discomfort. Why are you so disappointed when you’ve only met once? The sadness of being rejected by a blind date is real. Here are three methods to help you get out. Method 1: Allow yourself to feel sad, but do not amplify the…
After a blind date, you often struggle with whether this person is suitable or not? Don’t just focus on whether you have feelings, feelings can deceive people. The following five details are more reliable than feeling. Detail 1: Does he care about your feelings? Will you be asked about your dietary restrictions when ordering? Will…
When meeting for the first time, the greatest fear is awkward silence. Two people just sit there, not knowing what to say. The following list of topics can help you safely get through the first 30 minutes. Category 1: Talking about “the present” The most natural topics are right under your nose. For example: “How…
Many novices who approach others tend to fall into a misconception, thinking that they must be witty and humorous, and able to respond to jokes, in order to generate goodwill. In order to avoid awkward silences, they forcefully tell jokes and deliberately try to be funny, but in the end, this not only feels awkward…
Many people fail to make small talk not because of a lack of ability, but because they think too much. When they see someone they want to get to know, instead of acting immediately, they repeatedly rehearse the entire process in their minds, agonizing over how to say every sentence and how to make every…
