Most people are afraid of long-distance relationships because they are afraid of loneliness. Envy others for being together day and night as a couple, but only able to miss each other through the screen. No one to accompany during festivals, no one to hug when sad, and no one to comfort when wronged. Long term solitude can easily make people feel wronged, confused, and want to give up.
But the loneliness of long-distance relationships is never a torment, but the best opportunity for two people to grow up. Same city dating can easily rely on companionship and neglect growth, while long-distance relationships can force people to learn to be alone, self-discipline, and independently digest emotions, gradually becoming more mature and stable individuals.
Don’t be afraid of loneliness in a different place. A brief separation is for long-term companionship. Enduring temporary invisibility, quitting affectation and dependence, striving to live and improve oneself, accumulating confidence and laying the foundation for future reunions. Only by enduring loneliness can we welcome long-lasting companionship.
Facing loneliness in a different place, without avoiding, complaining, or internal conflicts. Turn longing into motivation, turn solitude into growth. Two people work hard in both directions, stick to each other, and endure the long time in a different place. In the end, they will surely usher in a satisfactory ending of mutual travel.