Many people dare not approach others due to inherent social inferiority complex. They feel that they are ordinary-looking, not good at speaking, and have average conditions, thus assuming that others would not be willing to talk to them. Before even opening their mouths, they first deny themselves, predict failure, and actively give up all social opportunities, closing themselves off for a long time.
In real-life daily interactions, what matters is never appearance or condition, but rather temperament and politeness. Most ordinary people value generosity, gentleness, and propriety in their acquaintances. A humble and polite demeanor, coupled with a clean and natural appearance, is far more attractive than a striking appearance.
The core of social inferiority lies in excessively magnifying one’s own shortcomings and overestimating the standards of others. In reality, everyone is just an ordinary person, and no one will harshly judge your appearance or speech. As long as you maintain a sincere attitude and present yourself appropriately, you are worthy of respect and acceptance in social situations.
Embracing your ordinary self is the key to socializing with ease. There’s no need for self-deprecation or internal friction. Just speak up with generosity and communicate simply. A confident and open-minded ordinary state is the best confidence for ordinary people to strike up a conversation.