Many people tend to lose themselves in relationships, with their hearts and eyes filled with each other, habitually accommodating, compromising, and giving, gradually losing their own preferences, bottom line, and life. Excessive attachment to the love of others often leads to anxiety and physical and mental exhaustion, making it easy to be betrayed by emotions.
The best emotional state is to love oneself first, and then love someone. Only by learning to treat oneself well, enrich one’s life, and stabilize one’s mentality, can one have the ability to love others and also gain equal, sincere, and stable relationships.
There is no need to change oneself in order to cater to others, and no need to compromise in order to maintain a humble relationship. Maintain your own pace, keep your bottom line, live well, grow well, and love yourself well. You are precious enough to deserve all the gentle favors in the world.
Self love and stability, then love others. Not attached, not pleasing, not humble, maintain clarity, gentleness, and independence. First settle your inner self, then sincerely pursue emotions, only then can you encounter the beauty and completeness of mutual pursuit.