The man who hits a woman seems to be on the stronger side of the relationship between two people, and is the dominant force in the male female relationship, dominating the happiness and pain of women.
In fact, they are outwardly strong but inwardly weak, and their hearts are often fragile and vulnerable.
Psychologically speaking, men who hit women cannot escape these types of psychology.
1. Inferiority.
Some men have a serious sense of inferiority, feeling that they are not worthy of the other person, thinking that the other person does not value them in their heart, and they will not truly love them. Marrying them is for another purpose, so they will use hitting the other person to cover up this inferiority complex.
This kind of man will think that the other person is trying to cheat when he sees them dress up a little, and he will be infuriated.
They will imagine in their minds the scene of their woman seducing the man they are being seduced by, and they cannot control their anger. Beating the woman becomes the outlet of their anger.
2. Abnormal psychology.
Some men, who have suffered violence from their parents in childhood, have a twisted mentality and use hitting women to vent their abnormal emotions, gaining pleasure from hitting women.
They experienced domestic violence in their childhood, or witnessed their own mother being subjected to violence, and were in an extremely insecure state, resulting in distorted mentality.
As adults, when they have the strength to hit people, they will use hitting women to vent their abnormal emotions and gain a kind of pleasure from it.
3. Male chauvinism psychology.
Some men believe that women are their vassals, and it is only natural for women to listen to men’s words. It is only natural for men to hit women, and for disobedient women, they should be restrained by beating them.
Some men have a serious chauvinistic mentality, thinking that women should listen to men and use physical force to make disobedient women obey.
Especially when encountering unpleasant things outside, hitting one’s own woman at home and seeing her aggrieved appearance can make one feel like a big man.
4. Conquer psychology.
Some men cannot conquer women and cannot win their love, so they use hitting women to make them submit.
Some men do not have the ability to gain women’s admiration and use hitting to show off their skills.
Their mentality is, if I see you don’t love me, I’ll hit you, beat you to death, if I see you don’t beg for mercy, if you still dare not love me.
5. Anger after being turned green.
A woman lacks self-respect and puts a green hat on a man, which makes the man unable to bear it anymore and can only resort to physical violence.
Some men, when they encounter a woman who lacks self-respect and cheats on another man, think of their green face and can’t bear it anymore. They must hit the woman to relieve their anger.