What is the power of family discourse? How to balance decision-making power between spouses

Almost all family conflicts ultimately stem from the struggle for discourse power. Many couples often have disputes when they are together due to expenses, parenting, consumption, living location, and other issues. Essentially, both parties hope to take control of family decisions and act according to their own ideas. This imbalance of discourse power is the…

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What should you do if your partner is habitually perfunctory? Perfunctory behavior in marriage

Many couples’ relationship breakdowns start with perfunctory responses. In daily life, many people encounter this situation: when actively sharing their daily life, pouring out their troubles, and making demands, their partners always respond with “whatever”, “it’s okay”, “you see what to do”, and their replies are simple and sloppy, with a negative and indifferent attitude….

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When is the period of marital fatigue? Methods to get through the dull and tiring period of marriage

After getting married for a period of time, the vast majority of couples will enter a special stage: losing their attraction to their partner, hating each other’s minor flaws, getting tired of the unchanging married life, and even having thoughts of divorce. This state is the period of marital burnout, which is a necessary stage…

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How do couples allocate household chores reasonably?

Household disputes are one of the most common marital conflicts in ordinary families, even surpassing emotional conflicts. Many families assume that household chores are undertaken by a single party, believing that doing household chores is the responsibility of the partner. The reason why household chores can easily escalate conflicts is essentially due to unequal feelings…

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Don’t settle old accounts in marriage. Only by letting go of the past can we get along for a long time

Many couples’ conflicts erupt repeatedly, mostly due to the love to reconcile old accounts. Every time we argue, it doesn’t solve the current problem, but instead brings up old things from several years ago and the mistakes that have already been reconciled. New and old grudges overlap, and small conflicts instantly escalate into big arguments….

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