The vast majority of emotional breakdowns between men and women occur during periods of calm relationships. Many people believe that once they have been in a relationship for a long time and the relationship has stabilized, they can completely let it go, no longer manage with care, no longer actively share, no longer gently accompany, treat perfunctory work as the norm, and treat indifference as a habit.
Any relationship will inevitably go from passionate to dull, and the novelty will gradually fade away. But being plain does not mean no longer loving, nor is it a reason to give up. Many people mistakenly believe that being plain means the end of their relationship, so they choose to slack off and let the distance deepen and widen.
The best way to get through a dull period is not to pursue novelty, but to maintain a sense of belonging. There is no need to deliberately create a grand romance. More sharing, love, and companionship in daily life can maintain emotional warmth through simple details.
Emotions are not static and require two people to maintain them with long-term dedication. In ordinary days, without slacking off or being perfunctory, cherishing and caring for each other, we can get through the mundane period, make our relationship more stable, and go on for a long time.