Don’t settle old accounts in marriage. Only by letting go of the past can we get along for a long time

Many couples’ conflicts erupt repeatedly, mostly due to the love to reconcile old accounts. Every time we argue, it doesn’t solve the current problem, but instead brings up old things from several years ago and the mistakes that have already been reconciled. New and old grudges overlap, and small conflicts instantly escalate into big arguments….

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Say goodbye to cold violence and rebuild the connection with your wife through communication

Many marriages break down due to long-term cold violence – silence and cold war after arguments, lack of communication due to conflicts, and hiding all emotions in the heart. Gradually, the wife’s heart becomes colder and the distance becomes farther, and she ultimately chooses to leave. To save your wife, the first step is to…

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What causes cold violence? Low cost resolution of marital conflicts

Many couples think that only arguments and conflicts can be considered a crisis in marital conflicts, but they overlook the more deadly cold violence. Compared to straightforward arguments, cold and violent behaviors such as cold war, refusal to communicate, deliberate estrangement, and ignoring partner emotions will gradually consume the relationship between husband and wife, making…

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What is marital cold violence? The invisible harm caused by cold violence to families

In modern marriage, physical conflicts are becoming increasingly rare, but cold violence has become the most common form of emotional harm. Unlike intense arguments, cold violence has no obvious conflict scars and is highly covert. Many parties involved may not even realize that they are being hurt, but simply feel depressed and emotionally low. Being…

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Is verbal violence considered domestic violence? The Harm and Response of Family Verbal Attacks

In daily family life, many people are accustomed to using hurtful language, belittling and suppressing each other, and later using “casual remarks, arguments and angry words” to evade them. Most people are unaware that frequent verbal abuse, denial, ridicule, and oppressive language attacks belong to the category of domestic violence, which is highly covert and…

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The impact of domestic violence on children? Hidden family harm cannot be ignored

Many parents mistakenly believe that domestic violence between spouses will not affect their children as long as they do not physically assault them. In fact, children who witness their parents’ domestic violence, even if they are not personally injured, will suffer serious hidden psychological harm. This trauma is hidden and long-lasting, and will accompany their…

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Is there only zero or countless instances of domestic violence?

Many people have heard the saying ‘domestic violence only occurs zero times and countless times’, but they do not understand the underlying reasons behind it. They even believe that the perpetrator can be changed through tolerance and communication, and ultimately suffer repeated harm. After the first occurrence of domestic violence, most perpetrators will sincerely apologize,…

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